How to be sad
Every moment comes caring a lot of feelings.. few happiness and a lot of sadness, thus sadness is a part of our feelings either we wanted or not.. it's a part of our life and no one can prevent it, it is that guest that we should host even without our willing, so how to be sad?? It's my question now…we 'r interested in learning every thing but never thought to learn how to deal and respect all means of feelings even it was sadness, and why not…why we consider that that time was bad why didn't we allow ourselves to think more deeply in the meaning of sadness and how to deal with.
Ok lets start . close your eyes…why r you sad? The answer is either u lost something or want something….so if u were from the first group and u lost an important thing….
so the next step is to ask yourself is it really was that important that makes u pass in these horrible moments… if the answer was yes so ask: can I get it back again….if the answer was no ..so can I compensate my loss by other mean…if the answer was still no, I shall respect here your sadness that it seems that u really have lost a so precious thing . but it comes here the question so what?? your loss became a fact now so what ? what is your next step? r u going to live all your coming moments with a history...weren't there other good moments of happiness, success, charity…remember here how many bad times u passed through… weren't they all become a history now…so will be the current one ,just remember that and that the happiness is coming through a narrow tunnel but finally even it was late but it'll come.
Back again to the second group…my dears .. I think that this group is much easier.. as this is the group of imagination… as if you are sad for a thing you want but u can't get , it means that u either don't deserve it and your hope was larger than you, and here all what you need is to study your goal and to plan for it with that spirit ( I'll get it)….the other possibility that you may really deserve it and worked hard to get your goal but the fate here has it's role… so remember how many things you though they were precious and then found out how cheap they were , so decide if I couldn't do this I'll try again and again in different ways till I reach my goal .
As all these work and experience give us the value of our life. Finally just remind yourself that
فعسى أن تكرهوا شيئا ويجعل الله فيه خيرا كثيرا) صدق الله العظيم)
الثلاثاء، ١٠ يوليو ٢٠٠٧
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